Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Woo Hoo!!!

There's always days when I come home from school feeling like it was an okay day. Of course, I love the girls I'm there with, and I love the school. But sometimes you just don't feel like you always learn something. Today was oh so different. A friend decided she wanted a cut, and she wanted ME to do it. Now, usually her other friend always does her hair, so honestly, I was floored. Not only that but she told me she wanted a change and I could do whatever I wanted with it. So, I decided Triangular grad... but a long version. ((Side note, we got a new learning leader a few weeks back, who I still was unsure on because I haven't really worked with her)) Anyways, she showed me a way to do the cut other than the PM way. And it's 10 times easier, and quicker and I love it!!! I feel amazing, it's like I have a high from hair. This just re-iterates my passion... that everyone sometimes loses track of.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

asymmetric bob.




I recently decided to chop more of my damaged hair off and got an asymmetrical bob. The husband isn't a huge fan... he doesn't like short hair. But... He did say that he knew it was gonna happen at some point once I started cosmetology school, and that as long as I like it that's all that matters and I'm still his baby. He can be pretty sweet sometimes. I'm lucky to have him as my husband. So, he said as long as I like it... the thing is, I'm still unsure. I love the cut. I think it's edgy, fun and everything I was going for. But I have a round fat face, and I feel like it makes it a bit more noticeable. I added some red highlights to my level 2 hair. I have such a hard time keeping my hair one color. I have been coloring it forever... and 'crazy' colors since I was in like 8th grade. I'm just not 'normal' hair kind of girl. The problem is, crazy colors are only semi permanent... and I hate faded hair. So the upkeep is a bit much on our tiny-winy budget. So red still adds a little something.
Lets start off with some info about myself...
I am 23 years young, live in a chicago suburb and married. I grew up on the south side of chicago in a very close knit family. My dad was a factory worker and my mom a waitress. I feel like I have seen and been through quite a bit in my life, and fully believe it's made me who I am today. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger" My grandparents had a busy household when I was young. There was always someone over. I can remember many times when my grandparents neighbor was over, I called her Auntie Dee, and I would comb and style her short hair for hours while she played cards or talked with the rest of the family. I guess thats really where it all started. Anyways, we moved to New Lenox(about 45 minutes south of Chicago) when I was in 3rd grade, and my grandma on my moms side moved in with us. I call her Babcia, which is polish for grandma. She always told me how important makeup and a proper hairstyle was on a woman. I started wearing makeup at a young age. I had to have accessories, and my makeup done or I wasnt going out. It was probably all too much for a young girl, but it made me happy. I would spend hours experimenting with my hair and makeup. My babcia got diagnosed with lung cancer, and passed away 2 weeks after they diagnosed her. She was my best friend, and it completely impacted my life. I was 16, and made the choice to become a nurse because I felt like if they would have found it sooner we would have been able to have her for a few more years. I graduated highschool a semester early and signed up for college immediately. It simply didn't work for me. I didn't go. I didn't care. It wasn't where I was meant to be. I got married at 18 to a man who completely swept me off my feet. He was a marine, stationed in NC, and I moved 1,000 miles away from my family, friends, and the only place I knew as home. I continued to color my hair and friends hair. I did friends makeup. And I found a beauty school in NC, but when I went on a tour, it wasn't right. I figured that maybe that meant I wasn't supposed to do hair, that it wasn't right for me either. In 2008, we moved back. I told my parents I wanted to go to cosmetology school, and their reaction wasn't warm. Both my parents did hard labor(though, at this point my dad had moved up the ladder at his work and was now sitting behind a desk) and they didn't want their daughter to do that. They wanted me to "have a better life than they did" and become a nurse, or lawyer. A career that I wouldn't have to struggle and "beauticians didn't make good money." Though I haven't mentioned too much about my dad yet, he is extremely important to me and I am a daddys girl 100%. His advice really mattered to me. I then went through the training and became a licensed insurance agent. The monetary opportunities were endless, but I still wasn't happy. I honestly was beginning to feel like nothing was right for me. A few months later, my husband and I split and it made me take a look at where my life was. I decided that I did not want to do insurance, and signed up at a community college for general classes. I finished that semester with honors. But, I hated it. I still hadnt found a career that sounded right for me. And my husband actually sat me down and told me to follow what made me happy. See, the thing is, when I have a bad day, I'll wash my face, turn on music, and redo my makeup and hair. Its like a new slate. I then realized I needed to go to my parents as the 23 year old I was and tell them that whether they like it or not, I'm going to follow my dreams. They weren't happy, they told me to atleast get an associates degree and then I could go to cosmetology school. I didn't listen and started doing tours. I went to Regency, Hair Professionals, and then Trendsetters Paul Mitchell. I walked in and fell in love. That brings us where I am today....












I have been in school now for about 6 months. I'm halfway done. I can honestly truly say, waking up and going to that tour of the school at 9 in the morning that wednesday was the best decision I've ever made. It truly is my dream and my passion. I am still helping people which is the only thing that drew me to nursing. I can help make women who are having a bad day, or a bad month feel important and beautiful even if its only for the hour their in my chair. School so far as been too amazing to put into words. I have met some women who I want in my life for years after this. We all have such different backgrounds, and personalities, but it is what makes it so wonderful. I have met a woman who has changed my life. My learning leader Jenn is truly an inspriation. She is someone to look up to. She has so many qualities I want. She's a strong woman, she is doing her passion everyday, she has the biggest heart and continually gives back to the community and she is successful. I am the president of the 'Be Nice or Else' team that she is the leader of. It's a team based on the book written by Winn Claybauch. Its a huge part of my life, and it has changed who I am.








Thats all for the intro. Atleast now when you read, you'll know a little background.
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